Am I Emo? I don't know. Someone help!!!?

I am a lot differrent than my friends in many ways. I am tall as to mos t of them are short, and I am 288lbs where most of them are 120-130. I know no one at my hghschool likes me, or ever has, and when they talk about thir boyfrends I say aww thats sweet and stuff like I wish I had one but they call me emo cuz we talk about it and I say noone likes me, which is true. but they call me emo, and I tell them, no...Im not emo, im just terribly aware of the fact that im werd and ugly and nobody likes me. but my question is, am i really emo or not,a ne what can I do to change this about myself? what can I do to make myself better? please do not say lose weight, because I weighed 325 lbs this past winter and now I have lost 37 lbs. so im working on more.

Am I Emo? I don't know. Someone help!!!?
To me it seems like you have a self-esteem prob than anything else. Life's too short to deal with negative ppl, so just hang out with ppl who ACTUALLY wanna hang out with you. You're not EMO cuz u dont cut urself and ****. To make yourself better, you either gotta get over your self-conscienceness or shut your conscience by losing weight.


Remember, happiness is nothing but a state of mind.
Reply:just tell them to **** off.


you're not emo.


emo's are losers who feel sorry for themselfs and try to get attention, you're not that.
Reply:your not emo. just ignore them and dont be friends with them.
Reply:Hun there is nothing wrong with big and beautiful. I have a friend thats over weight and shes gorgeous. no lie! shes prettier than half of the skinny girls out there. Don't let others get you down by calling you emo. and don't rush to have a boyfriend. Let one come to you. Concentrate on school and having good grades and making something of yourself. Thats worth more than a 2 month relationship.
Reply::) XD DONT WORRY!





i have thesame freging problem LOL


and yes iam VERRYY VERRRYY WIERD I MEAN LIKE SERUISLY ONCE I GOT DRUNK AND I GAVE A GRANNY A LAPDANCE! and iam only 16 xD LOL%26lt;3


eww imagine having sex with a granny EWWEWWW THATD BE HORRIBLE ;O





BUT YA ANYWAYS LOL BACK TO THE STORY ;D%26lt;3


You're not an emo


You're Not Ugly


and if you havnt got a bf then all you have todo is show them who you are, i bet that youre personalty is awesome and i bet that youre not ugly


IF YOU LOOK AT MY PICS YOUL BE LIKE AHHHHHHHHH!!! TAKE ITT OFFF! TAKE IT OFFF!!!


LOOL%26lt;3 but i dont care that am ugly :P i have fun being the person that i'm NOT INCLUDING THE LAPDANCE!


plus to add on xD i sometimes shout out random words like


SOUTHERN FRIEND CHICKEN


ZEST FOR LIFE





AND MY FAVOURITE ONE!:


YAAA!! EAT SOME CHICKEN FROM THE SOUTHERN PARTS OF AMERICA FK YAAA!!! LOOOOL%26lt;33





xD but ya anyways, just live your life :) dont let anyone TAKE ya down, and good job on loosing that much wieght :O! i mean like less than 45 lbs but am trying to loose some fat and i find it hard :O%26lt;3 I BLAME MY MOM SHE MAKES A CAKE EVERY SINGLE DAY! LOL but ya anyways!





GOOD LUCK ;D
Reply:i don't think anyone is that weird and ugly for NO ONE to like, here's and idea, be more openminded, and try talking to guys, instead of ur girl friends for a change and see what happens. And no, don't start by saying no one likes you, so u don't discourage the ones that want to like you! good luck :)
Reply:Well, If you don't want to be an emo? Then why you asking this question. It's pretty pointless. I'd stick two fingers up at your friends.





I had this problem yet I was an emo. I found out that they would be an emo and not say it. Pfft!! Lol.
Reply:honey you should never chang for anyone but yourself. I bet you are a beautiful girl !!! and no your not emo. emos cut them selves and where tons of black, and talk bout how depressing life is!!! ok so dont change for any one and you dont have to lose weight unless you want to!
Reply:Your not emo. They just dont know the s**t they dish. You arent emo, and you dont have to change urself to fit in..
Reply:Ignore the comment and go on with your life. Your in high school, so concentrate on getting good grades and someday when you have millions invested in bearer bonds and married to a hunk those girls who called u "emo" will be flipping burgers in McDonalds and picking up their 10 kids from day care.
Reply:Hi sweety, the important thing here is that you have to feel confortable with yourself. Everyone is beautiful, you have to know that there is a match for you outside and you have to look for him. Please think positive and keep it up. I have a beautiful family and I'm 5'4" and 250lbs, and my husband can take his eyes off me. It's what you are on the inside and how you feel what makes people look at you in a good way. Good luck and keep it up.
Reply:Hmm. I wouldn't say that your emo. You are unique, you may have a hard time fitting it. You're not weird and ugly darling. Congratulations on losing 37 pounds! =] That's great!!!! I'm proud of you.





What is emo:


is a style of hardcore punk rock which describes several independent variations of music with common stylistic roots. As such, use of the term has been the subject of much debate


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Emo is also oftenly associated with a certain fashion. The term "emo" is sometimes stereotyped with tight jeans on males and females alike, long fringe (bangs) brushed to one side of the face or over one or both eyes, dyed black, straight hair, tight t-shirts (sometimes with short-sleves) which often bear the names of rock bands (or other designed shirts), studded belts, belt buckles, canvas sneakers or skate shoes or other black shoes (often old and beaten up) and thick, black horn-rimmed glasses.[13][14][15] Emo fashion has changed with time. Early trends included straight, unparted hair (similar to that of Romulans and Vulcans in Star Trek), tightly fitting sweaters, button-down shirts, and work jackets.[citation needed] This fashion has at times been characterized as a fad.[16]








Your probably still growing, so give it time, when you lose weight I'm sure you'll be very gorgeous =]
Reply:wow this emo thing is gone way too far. Honey, emo doesn't exist ok? every teenagers go through a hard time and not all wears black stuff because of that. Do you think your friends have no trouble just cos they're skinny? I think you're too complexest about your weight and that it's interfering with your not having a boyfriend.





you lost some weight and you're not sick jealous of them, get your spirit high! you're a good person





edit: Be yourself! don't mind when they call you emo, the more you say stop calling me emo, the more they will call you that. They know it bothers so, so try not to care when they say that cos then they'll stop.
Reply:I.truly.am.not.trying.to.sound.rude, but.you.can't.be "emo" unless.you.are.skinny. However, one.can.possess.the emotionally.attributes.of.a "EMO". EMO.isn't.a.style.it.is.a feeling.that.you.have.





~Brayden. %26lt;3
Reply:its ok to lose weight,, dont do it for anyone, just do it for urself
Reply:people don't tend to get called emo unless you wear all black and punkyfish stuff and die their hair black or slit their wrists. but if you are just a bit depressed then thats not really an emo. what you need to do is start to be a bit more positive and make more friends at clubs.


try to have earlier nights so you feel happier during the day and wear bright coulours (not all the time but just so you don't look to depressed, you know?)


good luck!
Reply:tell then to **** off and dont care wat u think and if ur friend are such *** holes get new ones!
Reply:Open up your personality, let it loose, don`t worry what people say, your still a person, talk to boys that are on the big side. I know that some make-up can work, do you dress neatly, do so. How do you keep you hair? neat or a mess, there`s a lot more than losing weight. Your losing weight that's great, but it`s you that should start to open-up.
Reply:'emo,slut,prep.'


WHO CARES ABOUT THE LABELS


. Everyone can get emotional , and by the way hun your beautiful..


Guys in highschool are mostly all jerks anyways and you might not believe me or know it yet but theres someone way better than all those guys for you.





believe in yourself
Reply:you're not emo.Emo is when u hate life and the world and evryone and wanna die i guess.You're right u just know that ppl dont like you so whats the big deal.ppl really need to mind their own business and keep their mouths shut!Just put urself out there and start a convo with ppl and join more clubs or activities and dont be a "loner"...forget what they say and be yourself.I bet all those ppl who said that have their own probs.And its not cuz ur emo its just a stage in ur life that evryone goes through.Who cares about those guys anyway forget them and someday when ur famous/rich and ur married to a cuter billionaire,those girls will prob be mopping the floor at ur business...So bottom line is just be urself and everything is possible.
Reply:i used to be emo my sophomore year i didnt even realize it one day i heard a girl call me emo and i was like what where the emo kid? does she mean me? so i looked it up and i matched the profile on





urbandictionary.com





but idk what to tell you whats your style? mainly black clothes? do you listen to bands like fall out boy, cute is what we aim for, and other band slike that you might be emo or you might not your gonna have to figure it out yourself