Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Omg...please answer?

ok...well....i really like this guy...and we've been talking alot on aim lately...and he told me that he wasn't going to the winter ball (which is next week)...but tonight i found ou that he asked someone over the weekend (the 2nd person he asked) and when i found out i asked him what was new....he is the sweetest person i've ever met, he gives me Godly advice, he seems like he has it all together...and he doesn't want a girlfriend in high school, but i REALLY like him, he is so nice and it really seems like he cares...but he told my friends that we're just friends, kind of like just classmates, and that we're not too close...i wasn't thinking he was going to ask me, but what does this mean, does it mean that he doesn't like me at all (were not that close) i feel like weve gotten to know each other pretty well, but what should i do, i really have no idea! please help me with what i should do =*(

Omg...please answer?
believe it or not but you don't know each other pretty well. you're looking at the public personality of someone. see there's two sides of people: public and private. sure you see him everyday but the fact is you don't know him as well as you think. it's carma. "we're just friends" is slang for "i like you but i'm not ready to give in". don't persue him. just let him cave in.
Reply:He's not into you... Otherwise he would of asked you... Sorry
Reply:you should not even worry about it you will find some one more special i hope maybe in time to go to the ball with and its his loss anyway
Reply:y not start off by telling him what u juz told us all........and asking him to the ball with you....
Reply:well sadly, right now he doesnt like you, thats obvious





just try to be better friends with him, dont try to make a more than friends relationship right now, just get to be his buddy
Reply:If he said you're just friends and he asked someone else to the dance, there's your answer. Don't take it too personally, there's always going to be someone you like that doesn't like you back, it's part of being young and single. You'll feel differently when you find someone new to like.
Reply:It sounds like he pretty much told how it is. He likes you but only as a friend. %26amp; as hard as it may seem, you are going to have to accept that. I remember what it is like to like someone so much just to be called friend, but a guy that gives godly advice, is worth keeping in your life, even if it is just as friends. Broken hearts heal, %26amp; keep your chin up, you never know when %26amp; if his feelings will change for the better.
Reply:There's nothing you can do really..........The dude just sees you as his friend. What more do you want to be explained? He said that you are his friend.........like classmate.........you are not close.


Stop being so flustered. You might get hurt. Try to find someone is more than willing to go with you and that you like. You will have more fun. Don't settle for this dude.........honey, you will get hurt.
Reply:Sounds like he really cherishes your FRIENDSHIP, and that's all it is to him.
Reply:Wait till you turn 17 to date.
Reply:You are all over the place with that question. The guy says he isn't going to the dance but has asked 2 people? He doesn't want a girlfriend but you're worried whether or not he likes you? Major indications: He tells your friends that you're just friends and he hasn't asked you to the winter ball. Find a guy who isn't so confusing. Know who you are and what you want, then find a guy you like who knows who he is and wants you. Dating shouldn't be so complicated. Good luck.
Reply:I think that he thinks that your just friends and that when he said that you weren't that close he meant that you weren't dating.
Reply:right now.. he just want to be your friend..


nothing else.. nothing more..





what should you do? absolutely nothing..


you can still be arround as his friend..


or else you can risk ur friendship..
Reply:Next week, you'll like some other guy, like, REALLY, a lot, and this current sweetie pie will fade quickly into the abyss that is your 16-yr-old memory. I'm 34, and when I was 16, I was this guy you're talking about -- man, am I soooo glad I never had an "official" girlfriend in high school. This was the advice I gave my now 24-yr-old sister when she was in high school -- play the field. That doesn't mean have sex with a cast of characters -- it just means don't sweat not being asked to the Winter Ball. Next month, there's another dance.

anniversary flowers

Poems - have you heard of this poem?

has anyone heard of this poem? Some things are so precious its so very hard to say until anothers judgement means a bitter parting day, and now through winters icy chill it's you my darling i think of still, though ice and snow conspire to chill your warmth and love they never will and just as the spring will dawn anew, with sweet spring flowers struggling through, I'll bid this place no fond adue to take my rightful placed to be with you. Is this a famous poem, have you heard of it and what is the meaning of it? Who's judgement do you think it refers to?

Poems - have you heard of this poem?
it might help if you put the poem in the correct form, then it would be easier to place, although. Hmn! you could try googling it like has been suggested.





this site looks useful, can't find the poem in any of my books.





http://www.poetryarchive.org/poetryarchi...
Reply:Do not think much of it...smacks of late 19th century...are their capital letters in the original that might indicate Who is making he judgement?
Reply:Never heard of it.





Have you tried 'googling' the first line?
Reply:Never heard it
Reply:No i'm afraid not.
Reply:i hate that poem


my ex used to recite it all the time at dinner parties.
Reply:I can honestly say I've never heard it, although it has a particularly Robert Burns feel to it? Sorry I can't be of more help.


What do you think?

We must live through the dreary winter


If we would value the spring;


And the woods must be cold and silent


Before the robins sing.


The flowers must be buried in darkness


Before they can bud and bloom,


And the sweetest, warmest sunshine


Comes after the storm and gloom.





What do you think is a life message from this poem?





Do you know the meaning of this poem?

What do you think?
Life message: For anything in this life to be good, we must all go through hard times to appreciate the good times. If life were all rosey and cheery and spring time all year round, we wouldn't know it was good, and it would simply be mundane and plain and boring. But when we go through a hard time, a wintery time in our life, when we finally come out, we appreciate the smallest joys of spring.
Reply:For achieving happiness, and appreciate life we must also experience, and deal with the struggles of life.
Reply:Pain is inevitable.


Suffering is optional.
Reply:Accepting life defines accepting death, death means darkness,calamity,tests,and even death itself.Apparently, these are the things an individual undergoes in life which makes him emotionally and mentally strong but most importantly makes and molded him as a human.True happiness resides behind life's tormoils, it depends to a person's prerogative if he will take risk to face and successfully surpass it and feel the worth of life, than suffering from the regret for not doing it or worst not even trying. The message that this poem wants to convey is that sucess and triumph in life is sweeter when you have tasted the sourness of sorrow and sacrifice..........................johnn...
Reply:In order to appreciate or even notice one "thing", you must see the other side.........how do you know youre happy, if you have never been sad.......how great does pride feel, but only if you have felt shame......


HELP! Shakespeare poem...?

TO me, fair Friend, you never can be old,


For as you were when first your eye I eyed


Such seems your beauty still. Three winters' cold


Have from the forests shook three summers' pride;





Three beauteous springs to yellow autumn turn'd 5


In process of the seasons have I seen,


Three April perfumes in three hot Junes burn'd,


Since first I saw you fresh, which yet are green.





Ah! yet doth beauty, like a dial-hand,


Steal from his figure, and no pace perceived; 10


So your sweet hue, which methinks still doth stand,


Hath motion, and mine eye may be deceived:





For fear of which, hear this, thou age unbred,—


Ere you were born, was beauty's summer dead.





"For fear of which, hear this, thou age unbred"


I have asked this questinon many times now, but I keep getting different explainations on what this line means.


So who is he talking to?


Unbred? not born yet? is yhis what it means? is so, then who?





English is not my mother tounge.

HELP! Shakespeare poem...?
I believe he is saying that he believes that his friend is still as beautiful as he was when he first saw him three years ago (li 1 - 8); however, he recognizes that beauty may fade without him ever noticing (li 9 - 12). So, "for fear of which" (meaning, he's afraid it might be true that he can't tell that his friend is in fact aging), he addresses those to come - those whose ages have not yet been bred, or concieved - and says that before they are ever born, beauty has failed, i.e. that his friend was most beautiful and they will never get to see it.
Reply:It's Sonnet 104 by Shakespeare. He's not talking to anyone in particular, but to people of the future in general. These are people who haven't been "bred" yet, and therefore don't yet exist.





The link below has a "translation" of the sonnet into contemporary English. Hope that helps!
Reply:Dipends my friend what language do you speak?


Depende amigo mio cual idioma hablas?


Dipende amico mio quale lingua parli?


Why the sudden weight gain in a foreign country??

Before moving to this new country I was 5'2'' and normally between 115-120 lbs. I ate what I wanted, but was running 4-5 times a week...nothing drastic, just outside or on a treadmill until I got tired. I just moved to a new country where it is cold, and underdeveloped and now have no gym and little opportunity for physcial activity (though I try with my workout dvd's,) I am a vegetarian and eat really healthy here (when it is available, sometimes I find myself eating only apples for my fruit intake because it's all I can find!), but am still gaining weight! I've cut back on my calories, and I cut out sweets. Still, no luck...I can't explain it! Any ideas? I think I'll be fine once it warms up and I can run again, but until then I need advice, there are still a good 3 months of winter left here, and I don't want to get so far gone that it takes me a year to slim back down! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Why the sudden weight gain in a foreign country??
Its this change of environment. Are you sleeping well. That does affect your weight. Also some fruits are too high in sugar. Well I know I cant take more than 1 apple a day. Your fibre intake too might be low.





Get a lot more vegetable and see what happens. Its difficult, I know.
Reply:maybe it's the temperature. Cold temperature makes it hard to sweat a lot. How bout more water?

Books

Children of the 8o's do you remember?

Hello children of the 80's. Read this, it will take you back but be careful cause it will also make you


realise that you are now actually OLD!!





Um Bongo, Um Bongo, They drink it in the Congo.





Friendship bracelets were ties that couldn't be broken.





You know all the words to "Ice Ice Baby".





You wanted to be on "Jim'll Fix It".





You can remember what Michael Jackson looked like before he had plastic surgery.





You had one of those T-shirts that changed colour with heat (Global Hypercolour).





You know the profound meaning of "Wax on, Wax off".





You were upset when She-ra, Princess of Power and He-Man got cancelled.





You can remember watching Saved by the Bell.





You remember Madonna in her cone stage.





You knew "The Artist" when he was humbly titled "Prince."





You wore fluorescent-neon clothing... (if you can call it clothing!).





You could break dance (ok, you wished you could).





You remember when Amiga was a state of the art video game system.





You remember M.C. Hammer.





You can still sing the rap to "Fresh Prince of Bel Air"....





You can remember when it was Jazzy Jeff and The fresh Prince and NOT just plain Will Smith!





You own any cassettes.





You carried your lunch to school in a Gremlins, ALF or ET lunchbox.





You have ever pondered on why Smurfit was the ONLY female surf.





My Little Pony, Gummy Bears and Transformers are familiar to you.





You had a Swatch Watch.





You actually spent countless hours trying to perfect the "Care Bear stare."





You believed that "By the power of Grey skull, you HAD the power!"





Big wheels and Box’s were the way to go.





With your pink (or blue) portable tape player, you sang to Kylie and Jason!





You owned Polly Pocket or Micro Machines.





You made Ken fall in love with Barbie.





Partying "like it's 1999" seemed SO far away.





You knew that Transformers were "more than meets the eye".





You wore a banana clip at some point during your


Youth.





You actually thought "Dirty Dancing" was a REALLY


good film.





You were led to believe that in the year 2000 we'd all


be living in space.





You know what leg warmers are and probably had a pair.





You wore biker shorts underneath a short skirt and felt stylish.





You had to change into play clothes after school.





You recorded songs off the radio with your boom box.





You wore those wide, colourful shoelaces.





You still don't like going in the sea because of Jaws.








You never questioned why the A-Team were always imprisoned in places that had sufficient tools to build an armored tank.





Dungeons %26amp; Dragons was your favourite programme.





You said "bright light, bright light" in a strange high-pitched voice.





You fell out with friends during heated arguments about the relative merits of Matt %26amp; Luke.





Cerise pink, electric blue and banana yellow have ever featured in your wardrobe or make-up collection.





You did the top toggle of your coat up around your neck without having your arms in the sleeves, and you


knew you looked like a superhero.





Your new winter coat was best used to demonstrate that your wings were like a shield of steel.





You still remember when the A-ha video was the pinnacle


of modern technology and you can still sing all the words.





Your best party dress was either a ra-ra or puff-ball skirt.





You remember watching a house inhabited by a jester, a pantomime horse and a woman who sneezed, and thinking that this was perfectly normal.








You tried to convince your Dad to fit a strip of red lights on the front of a Capri so it looked like KITT.








You had more than 10 sweets in a 10p mix-up.





You hid behind the sofa whenever you heard the word "Exterminate!".





Girls - You owned a pair of Pixie boots, generally worn with leg warmers. Boys - You owned a pair of pale grey slip-ons, generally worn with white toweling socks.





You held a chicken in the air or stuck a deckchair up your nose.





You wore legwarmers %26amp; tried to do the splits while jumping in the air while singing you were going to


live forever.





You remember Fingermouse and Dangermouse (not forgetting his trusty sidekick Penfold!).





You know all the words to "Hey Mickey"(well, nobody knows past the first verse anyway).





Your best mate had a Soda Stream at home and you were jealous.





Any elderly Scottish lady sounds like Supergran.





You remember playing British Bulldog.





When 'Computer' Tennis, Pac-Man and Donkey-Kong ruled.








You remember hearing the tune then running out to buy an ice cream cone on a warm summer night - 99's, screwballs or a cider lolly.





You got up extra early, especially to watch Saturday Morning cartoons.





You were occasionally allowed to stay up late for Howard's Way, Dallas, Dynasty or Minder.





Water balloons were the ultimate weapon.





You remember when 25p was decent pocket money and you'd reach into a muddy gutter for 10p.





Important decisions were made by going "eeny-meeny-miney-mo."





Scrapes and bruises were kissed and made better.





Taking drugs meant orange-flavoured chewable aspirin.





Older siblings were the worst tormentors, but also the fiercest protectors.

Children of the 8o's do you remember?
oh thanks a lot, i turned 20 yesterday (OK so I'm still the youngest person to answer this question) and after reading this i feel Ive just waved goodbye to my youth. oh here are a few more to make you smile.





raggy dolls, can you name them all.





teenage mutant ninja turtles, again, can you name them all, including the baddies.





rainbow with bungle, zippy and the extremely camp George, which at the time never occurred to you.





rainbow bright.
Reply:I'm only 16, and I remember quite a few of those things from the 90's.





Especially the "enny-menee-minee-mo" thing. Lol. Report It

Reply:Not only do I remember MC Hammer but I remember wearing a pair of those ridiculous pants he always had on as well. I thought these looked great teemed with a pair of purple kickers or green wallabies.


Batfink was one of my favourite cartoons along with Hong Kong Fuey and Captain Caaaaaaaavvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeman


Does anyone remember Josseys Giants? it was a BBC kids TV programme about a kids football team.
Reply:Parents of 80's children remember all this too because we had to buy it or watch it. "By the Power of Greyskull!". And you forgot Pob btw.
Reply:Spot on. apart from dirty dancing an the banana clip, do a wicked impression of Uni from D %26amp; D, an I have wings of steel whoosh ching. Always wanted that Soda stream, even though they tasted naf. lol





Major flash backs LOL Thank you.
Reply:Oh man...did you bring back some memories...(born in 1977)
Reply:How could you forget any of that?





The D%26amp;D cartoon is now available, as are almost all of the great cartoons of the 80s, on DVD.





The song is "Oh Mickey".





I remember when a dollar bought a 10 oz soda and 2 crocodiles. Oh those were the days. Now you can't even get a soda for a dollar.





Now that I am a new dad and get up early every morning wit my daughter, I miss all of the great early morning cartoons and especially the Saturday morning cartoons. Now there isn't anything on except infomercials. How depressing for the kids of today.
Reply:Ah, those were the days. Any self respecting child of the 80's should also remember:


Dogtanian and the three muskahounds


Mysterious Cities of Gold


Thundercats


Defenders of the Earth


Button Moon and the fashion statement that was very large bright Fila Trainers
Reply:This made me chuckle yet also feel melancholy. Ah, my lost youth. lol.





You'd also remember a lilt like drink with uber cool adverts ending in the whispered word "Quatro"


Metal Mickey would have made you laugh (boogie woogie)


You'd have owned at least 2 pairs of neon socks just so you could wear a different colour on each foot.


Good things were "skill"
Reply:How true.
Reply:sooo true! and shellsuits, dont forget them!!!!
Reply:brilliant, brought back so many memories, thank you
Reply:haha your spot on with it all im 28 and remember them all to well..xx does this mean i am old?? lol.x
Reply:yeah I remember all that and I still have my lucky yellow ra-ra shirt and pink leg warmers...x
Reply:omg! im ollllldddddd
Reply:I'M OLD,





boo hoo hoo
Reply:hmmm...well honestly...i'm not that 80's....





But i remember all of that....
Reply:I remember nearly all that stuff because I was a child, then a teenager in the 1980s, but I still don't consider myself THAT OLD!!! Now, I'm a little more than a little older than a teenager though. I'm still young at heart!
Reply:hahaha, those were the days, remember quite afew of those things.
Reply:my parents remember this
Reply:so many memories which bring a smile xx thank you
Reply:I was born in 72, so maybe a little old and I wasn't into Kylie and Jason at 16 and I've never heard of British Bulldog (as I wasn't allowed out at playtime for medical reasons), but everything else is so true. No more details as a lot of it has brought back so many embarassing, and yet cool memories. The 80's ruled full stop! I wish it was still like that!
Reply:I'm a parent of 3 80's kids and i remember all of that. i was quite upset when they changed he-man but the kids didn't care.
Reply:Ahh, good times. I was born 11th december 1989 - a whole 3 weeks of the 80s lol!





I got love for you if you were born in the 80s! :P (don't tell me you didn't see that coming! :P)


How does one choose a quality beer that tastes good?

I went to the grocery store tonight and looked at all the different beers they had to choose from. I'm not talking about the general beers that most know of. I am referring to the high quality beers from all different parts of the world. It was very difficult for me to decide on one beer out of all the different ones. It's sort of like choosing a fine wine I suppose. What are the main differences between gourmet beers to look for? I like the less thick, lighter, sweeter beers, not the heavy stout bitter ones. Does anyone have any reccommendations on how to choose a good beer? Tonight I took a gamble and went with Heavy Seas' "Winter Storm" ale. It's a bit strong for my tastes, but it has a nice kick. Any help would be appreciated.

How does one choose a quality beer that tastes good?
I used to spend an hour picking out a beer, I completely understand where you are coming from.





What I used to do:


1. Stand in the aisle look like an idiot


2. Finally just ask myself what type of beer I was in the mood for.


3. Pick beer from above category at random.





What I do know:


1. Stand in the beer aisle look like an idiot.


2. Whip out my blackberry and cruise over to http://beeradvocate.com


3. Read reviews and look at ratings.





PS. I used to love going to the Winking Lizard when I lived in Cleveland. They just got a mention on http://www.whysoserious.com/ the Dark Knight/Joker web page. And I personally have tried to limit my trips to ratebeer.com as of late. I've done several side by side comparisons between BA and RB.. I've found that RB has become too snobby as of late.
Reply:beeradvocate.com is a good website to look at. Also try ratebeer.com, people from all over the world come to this site to rate beers, you can find any beer on there and many different descriptions of the beer. It will also have a rating, anywhere from 1 percentile to 100 percentile. The funny thing is, the most well known beers (Budweiser, Miller, Coors) have the worst rating. People actually call them "Drain Pours", as in pour it down the drain and don't drink it.
Reply:Check out





http://www.beeradvocate.com





You could get lost there for days.





Here's what others had to say about your beer:


http://beeradvocate.com/beer/profile/898...





You can also read up on different styles, etc.
Reply:save up your pennies, and go to a bar that serves LOTS of good beers, such as the winking lizard chain in Ohio ( columbus and cleveland at least) and read the menu of beers ( they have like 100) and try the ones that SOUND good.. every one has diferent tastes, I like india pale ales and a few darker beers ( bass, killeans)
Reply:Start at this website...... looks good, and will probably take you other places. Good Luck.





http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story...
Reply:Just like buying fine wine, you need to taste test.


Find a good vintner, someone who knows there wines; beers and spirits.


Read the labels, buy a few bottles of differing types and see what you like.





For you I would suggest some blondes. Try some Belgium or German beers. I prefer bitters. But I am told Leffe is a good Belgium blonde. Certainly readily available in the UK.





Go to a beer festival or two and talk and taste.
Reply:Trial and error is the fun of it! I try a new 6 pack every few weeks.


My hub likes Grolsch and Elephant and I like Sam Adams Winter Lager lately.


Have fun!
Reply:I subscribe to Beer Advocate and recommend it however...





The best way to choose a quality beer that tastes good is to learn more about beer and drink more beer. Find a brewery or brew pub, preferably one that offers tours. Take the tour, listen to the information they give you and ask questions. After the tour taste a variety of their beers and ask more questions. Also, tours tend to be very inexpensive ($3-$5) or free.





Then, find another brewery or brew pub and do it again*. And again. Practice makes perfect.





Attend a local beer festival. http://www.beerfestivals.org/ Sample everything and ask the brewery reps questions.





Finally, find a good liquor store with a knowledgeable staff that likes beer.





*I have found this is very easy in Milwaukee, WI and Denver/Fort Collins, CO. Your mileage may vary.
Reply:It sounds like you would probably enjoy a hefenweizen. Its a little sweeter with a himt of lemon or orange. You would probably want to stay away from lagers, porters, IPAs, stouts, etc. I sometimes enjoy hefenweizens (I'm not really into sweet beers), but I stay away from German Hefenweizens because they tend to taste like bologna. If you like sweet, you can also go for a Belgium beer, which is sweet but still has a strong beer flavor. You can also go for a belgium Lambic. Usually these beers are very sour, but often have sugar added. Try Lindemans Lambic which is sweet, sour, crisp, and fruity. It is still a beer. not a wine cooler.