Omg...please answer?

ok...well....i really like this guy...and we've been talking alot on aim lately...and he told me that he wasn't going to the winter ball (which is next week)...but tonight i found ou that he asked someone over the weekend (the 2nd person he asked) and when i found out i asked him what was new....he is the sweetest person i've ever met, he gives me Godly advice, he seems like he has it all together...and he doesn't want a girlfriend in high school, but i REALLY like him, he is so nice and it really seems like he cares...but he told my friends that we're just friends, kind of like just classmates, and that we're not too close...i wasn't thinking he was going to ask me, but what does this mean, does it mean that he doesn't like me at all (were not that close) i feel like weve gotten to know each other pretty well, but what should i do, i really have no idea! please help me with what i should do =*(

Omg...please answer?
believe it or not but you don't know each other pretty well. you're looking at the public personality of someone. see there's two sides of people: public and private. sure you see him everyday but the fact is you don't know him as well as you think. it's carma. "we're just friends" is slang for "i like you but i'm not ready to give in". don't persue him. just let him cave in.
Reply:He's not into you... Otherwise he would of asked you... Sorry
Reply:you should not even worry about it you will find some one more special i hope maybe in time to go to the ball with and its his loss anyway
Reply:y not start off by telling him what u juz told us all........and asking him to the ball with you....
Reply:well sadly, right now he doesnt like you, thats obvious





just try to be better friends with him, dont try to make a more than friends relationship right now, just get to be his buddy
Reply:If he said you're just friends and he asked someone else to the dance, there's your answer. Don't take it too personally, there's always going to be someone you like that doesn't like you back, it's part of being young and single. You'll feel differently when you find someone new to like.
Reply:It sounds like he pretty much told how it is. He likes you but only as a friend. %26amp; as hard as it may seem, you are going to have to accept that. I remember what it is like to like someone so much just to be called friend, but a guy that gives godly advice, is worth keeping in your life, even if it is just as friends. Broken hearts heal, %26amp; keep your chin up, you never know when %26amp; if his feelings will change for the better.
Reply:There's nothing you can do really..........The dude just sees you as his friend. What more do you want to be explained? He said that you are his friend.........like classmate.........you are not close.


Stop being so flustered. You might get hurt. Try to find someone is more than willing to go with you and that you like. You will have more fun. Don't settle for this dude.........honey, you will get hurt.
Reply:Sounds like he really cherishes your FRIENDSHIP, and that's all it is to him.
Reply:Wait till you turn 17 to date.
Reply:You are all over the place with that question. The guy says he isn't going to the dance but has asked 2 people? He doesn't want a girlfriend but you're worried whether or not he likes you? Major indications: He tells your friends that you're just friends and he hasn't asked you to the winter ball. Find a guy who isn't so confusing. Know who you are and what you want, then find a guy you like who knows who he is and wants you. Dating shouldn't be so complicated. Good luck.
Reply:I think that he thinks that your just friends and that when he said that you weren't that close he meant that you weren't dating.
Reply:right now.. he just want to be your friend..


nothing else.. nothing more..





what should you do? absolutely nothing..


you can still be arround as his friend..


or else you can risk ur friendship..
Reply:Next week, you'll like some other guy, like, REALLY, a lot, and this current sweetie pie will fade quickly into the abyss that is your 16-yr-old memory. I'm 34, and when I was 16, I was this guy you're talking about -- man, am I soooo glad I never had an "official" girlfriend in high school. This was the advice I gave my now 24-yr-old sister when she was in high school -- play the field. That doesn't mean have sex with a cast of characters -- it just means don't sweat not being asked to the Winter Ball. Next month, there's another dance.

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