I feel lost, confused, and sad what should i do?

i'm feeling really sad right now. i got rejected by a girl two weeks ago. i did really nice things to her. i gave her a birthday present which was a cake, a Sweet 16 candle, and a birthday card. she seemed to like it and she gave me a big hug. i gave her chocolate when she was sick along with a note. i encouraged her that she would do better in a class. well, she's in one of my classes and i baked the muffins for the whole class. she didn't eat a muffin because she was mad about duke losing to pittsburgh in basketball.





she is a great person even though she's a bit immature and she's been to disney world 13 times. she's very similar to me and that's why i'm still drawn to her. she has no guy friends at school. she idolizes Jason Wade from Lifehouse and Nick Jonas. i wish i was them for one day.





i want to ask out 1 hot girl to a winter formal that i don't know. i have a good friend who's best friends with the hot girl. i want a gf but i dk how to get one even though i'm considerate

I feel lost, confused, and sad what should i do?
you remind me of my friend. You seem like a really nice guy and please don't change! There aren't enough of guys like you in this world! Tell her how you feel about her and maybe ask her to go to dinner with you? If she doesn't feel the same way you can still be nice to her, etc. You will definitly find a girl for you but the different thing about it is that because you are soo kind you will have the relationship that every guy dreams about. You will have the best relationship with a trust worthy girl and it will be perfect.


Hope this helps


Stay sweet!
Reply:I have a boyfriend. But I would never acted wrong or uncomfortable around hI'm. p.s. Never ever date your friend's friend! THEN,your friend will never be your friend EVER again. That happened to me once. I would never again date my friend's friend ever again! And I cant believe I lost my friend over a hot guy! BUT...I broke up with the guy and now I have a new one. "Just giving you some advice." Then me and my friend became friends again. But im not trying to say this as a good thing.........just never do that. If you don't mind if your friend is not your friend anymore....then I guess that's OK.
Reply:What you do is to make contact with the best friend of the hot chick, then ask him/her what her favorite activities or her likes are (for example: chocolates, rings, anything). Then, show up in front of the hot chick, start with a small conversation, and you can move on when you develop a good friendship between you and the hot chick, and afterwards, invite her to the dance.





Wishing you all the best with the hot chick.
Reply:forget the old girl. ask out the hot girl.


And stop with all the giving. Don't give to people to make them like you. That's weak.
Reply:Man, I've been down that road of looking for that trophy gf. All it leads to is complications. From what you've said, she sounds like a great girl and I would work on that. Don't waste your time on just finding a trophy gf to show off and/or make your friend jealous.





P.S Cheer up! She'll be with you soon enough!
Reply:As great as it is to be giving, maybe you're doing too much. Sorry, that's a confusing piece of advice for courtship, but I'm serious. Try toning down on making things and buying things, and just be a good friend. But not too good so that you enter the friend zone. Talk, have conversations about whatever, but don't make yourself too available so that it seems like she's got your wrapped around her finger. Hot girls have guys after them all the time. Try to be that guy who she's not sure of.





At least, that's the advice i've been given.
Reply:u are too nice, got to have some dog in u, women do not keep long time interest in bisons, u have to show your pitbull at times.
Reply:I know what if feels like to get rejected, but dude you got to move on and forget about the girl. Don't mope over it. There's plenty others out there. Many of those others may very well give you the time of day. Be confident as well. Think of tit like this: nothing gained, nothing lost. Just ask the girl you want to go to the formal with. Good luck.
Reply:stop looking for one and one will come when you least expect it just have fun and be yourself around everyone don't try to empress any girl a good girlfriend will want to be with you for who you are so just be patient. and don't be shy if you want to be with a girl make your intentions known.
Reply:Here's what I think. You seem to really like this girl and all the things you are doing for her are very sweet. But you also seem to just want a girlfriend for the sake of having one. Maybe she can sense this and all the nice things you are doing for her are coming off as insinsear. Maybe you should just lay off those things and try and just talk to her and become her friend. Also know not to ask someone out jsut becasue they are hot.
Reply:do the same thing you're doing, some girls just aren't the right ones for u, just wait for the right one
Reply:dude ditch the give attitude ... serious
Reply:dont push her! become good friends %26amp; get her trust before u go n ruin it by going2fast! try not2 be so giving n give it time! GOOD LUCK
Reply:Why did she reject you? You didn't really explain that. It's a weird situation, but while girls like receiving presents, they want them from their boyfriend, not some random guy who has a crush on them. It seems like you put too much effort into her and she didn't feel the same way. Live and learn.