What should we do?

My family is having a family reunion this summer. I saw my son have already reserve a room for him and one of his female friends. I'm pretty sure he'll bring one of those punk girls with him.





We're sorta worry because last year he brought a girl with him. Next day when they went to jet ski, we saw him with few deep bites and scratches marks on his body. This winter when he was here to visit the family for holiday, he brought another girl with him. My father and mother say they can actually hear the girl talk about how good his blood taste due to his extreme fitness and how helpless she feel when he's in control.





I'm worry something similar will happen. How do I tell him to not do something like that at family reunion? Also why do he like those type of girls? He always dress very neatly and look like a high fashion models and have class. However the girls he usually is with are all punky. I do like all girls he bring with him, they all seems very intelligent and sweet. But from

What should we do?
Considering a family reunion is a gathering of not just immediate family member but also extended family members and perhaps even a few friends, ask your son to respect the family's wishes in presenting himself in a normal fashion. You did not mention his age, so I cannot say whether or not you have the final call on the matter, but I think just being open about it with him will be best.





Explain to him that you can't rule his sex life, but you can expect him to be a proper son and respect his parent(s) wishes. Let him know that if he has any problem respecting your wishes for a mere few hours/few days during the reunion, then you think it'd be best he not go at all and that you will gladly tell the rest of the family that he says hello.
Reply:don't disgrace him. me and my ex boyfriend used to bite each other too much too ( no bleeding thought..) just tell him you don't want to see or hear about any bite marks around the family.
Reply:Encourage him
Reply:Talk to him and then the girl he bring then talk to them together
Reply:I believe you are his mother, then you have a right to speak to him that "Never bring any such thing where we have family function because we don't want to spoil the party."


You must say him like that and if he disagrees then ask him not to come in party because at least you will not be embarrassed.Bye
Reply:okay, just let it be.
Reply:talk n talk to him.just try to make sure you dont patronize him. Weird though if u can' t say anything abt him bringing girls around and yet u worry abt this..hmmm...sound like u're allowing him to do that.
Reply:Well, better tell him straight on his face that what he is doing is disgusting for other family members.
Reply:Just tell him your fine with what he chooses to do to himself however things like this could shock/upset the elderly generations of your family so could he please be discreet about it and forthcoming reunion good luck and good on you for being cool parents :)
Reply:Wow sounds really strange ....but i guess some prefer having a bit of craziness in there sex lives...what u should do is have a talk with your son and tell him that you really prefer for him not to be doing those things where it is so darn obvious that it really embarrass you and you would rather have him do that somewhere else ask him not do that to have respect for you and your family that are gathering...tell him really there is no need to broadcast what he does behind close doors...if that were my son i would tell him if he is gonna embarrass me like that than please do not come that shows no respect for you no need for him to advertise what he does behind closed doors