Friday, February 3, 2012

How to lead an in experienced guy with him still feeling confident?

I like this guy that's 6 years younger than me)he's 18, I'm 24 but on the same level as him). he's never had a g/f and doesn't have an y girl experience other than hanging out with guy friend with girls there.He's vulneralbe around me it's sweet and I know he really likes me too. he seems to like me to lead and it seems to give him confidence.we love to laugh and be around each other and we flirt a lot online and he always finds ways to touch me or be cute with me and he's not like that with anyone else.he went to college 2 hours away but we're gonna see each other on winter break. I really wanna kiss him, I think he expects it too. I think guys like to sometimes be in control and I don't wanna overwhelm him. I am a very passionate kisser so can anyone help me with this.I want a long lasting relationship I mean I never wanna break up with him if we get together(which I feel we will) he said there's no interesting girls, I'm still special. he just has friends at college. please advice.

How to lead an in experienced guy with him still feeling confident?
Yeah, it seems that right now you have to lead the way. But once you have him, open the door for him to start leading you and let him make some moves.
Reply:if i was him, i would love for you to make the first major move...takes a lot of pressure off of him
Reply:let go and let God
Reply:You don't seem to need any advice, you seem to have a good understanding of the situation, if you are looking for confirmation, then you have it, you are right on track. Go for it, he will respond as you hope and he will like it.
Reply:Damm, I wish I had a women like you here to give me some confident and experience too, and l'm like 10 years older than you. You know just make a move from a kiss and so on. You lead him and he will just follow, and who knows he might take the lead next time. Somebody has to learn somehow which ever way it takes. Good luck.
Reply:kiss him move make a move.
Reply:Just dive into it...


He is a guy..


He will love it...


You are not going to scare him...
Reply:Everyone has to learn sometime and he may as well learn from you.Think of all the fun the two of are going to have.
Reply:lets just say the guy im doing long distance with was the same... he wasnt very exprienced... i was his first girl... and i made the first move... it was at a party and we were sitting in the garden alone... he was very close... and i could tell he wanted something... so i just followed my gut and kissed him lightly... he pulled back at first... so i stopped... but before the night was over, we were already comfortable with kissing and the kisses were pretty passionate ones...





i think that maybe you should try not to give everything first... give him a little... like a light kiss to say you wanna take this relationship furthur... if he wants... he'll kiss you again... if not... then... i dont know... maybe he isnt ready... but he is 18... so him not wanting it is probably not very likely... try it girl!!! show him the way... then let him have control of everything... well... not everything... but lt him feel like he is in control... agree with him on things... and if you dont agree tell him why... not just say no and walk away...





you can do it!!! Go for it!!! Good Luck!!!

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