A guy problem! help! :)?

i was really good friends with this guy and he was sweet and he liked me, but had a girlfriend. i liked him back, but we were such great friends that i didnt want to ruin it. we went to winter break at school and over break he broke up with his girlfriend. of course, i was happy! hahaha. but when we came back from break, it was like we were never as good of friends as we were before. he didnt talk to me AT ALL and just kept to himself. we didnt talk for about a month and i HATED it. its been kind of off and on with our friend ship and ya i still like him, but would rather be good friends wth him rather than bf gf. its been really hard and i just want to know what happened, and why our friendship had such a downfall. i miss him so much and how he used to make me laugh

A guy problem! help! :)?
i think maybe he is a little upset over his gf.and yes maybe he didn't know what he wants.The best way is to approach him and ask him what went wrong that u guys stopped talking.Be there for him like a good friend.let him know u are there.and u care.


eventually he might open up to you.





but yet again you must be prepare that he might actually not talk to you if you dun confront him.


tell him how you feel.


=)
Reply:you need to know why him and his girlfriend broke up. if it's because she found out he liked you, he probably won't think it such a good idea to talk to you straight away.





he might be sick of chicks all together and that's why he's not talking to you.





when you said he's "keeping to himself" did you mean he's not talking to anyone? or just you? if he's not talking to anyone you shouldn't worry - he'll get over it eventually.





whatever his problem is, just ask him why he's talking to you, whether you did something to piss him off or something.
Reply:you need to confront him and ask him whats up, thats the only way this is gonna get better. just ask him if theres something you did to make him distance himself from you, tell him you miss being his friend and that whatever he is going through he can talk to you about it. try to make him laugh or remind him of something you once talked about, being direct with him is your best bet. chances are he was just really upset about the break up, people tend to get reclusive when they are dealing with heartache. just ask him straight out and go from there, good luck :)
Reply:He's sad about the break up with his girlfriend. He likes you but doesn't know how to approach you, and he's probably shy about it. You should approach him very tactfully, and ask im what's up. He might be depressed, and in need of a good friend right now. You should just be a friend to him for now and than see how things pan out.
Reply:i dont know what's the answer for your problem but i had the same problem with you in the pass. all i did was.... wait and see and finally he come back even not as a good friends we were but he finally back. even it takes quite long time. friendship never ends, know that for sure.
Reply:talk to him. go approach him and ask him what happened between him and his girlfriend. maybe he'll talk to you. If not try to ask him why he doesn't talk to u anymore.








hope that helps!
Reply:Sounds like you had a crush on him but he didn't know what he wanted. If it is meant to be, he will come find you. Otherwise, the world is your oyster, go and explore!
Reply:Dudes that break up with their girls are never happy it doesn't matter who you are and if at the time he was feeling u he may or may not still b. To find out offer him some american pie and see if he wants you.
Reply:just tell him how you feel and he may spill everything out.

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