Are you judge people so quickly????read this???

what is your opinion about it.








There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.





The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer and the fourth son in the fall.





When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.





The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent and twisted.





The second son said, no, that it was covered with green buds and full of promise.





The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful. It was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.





The last son disagreed with all of them. He said it was ripe and drooping with fruit - full of life and fulfillment.





The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.





He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that comes from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

Are you judge people so quickly????read this???
Thanks once again for your remarkable story...


I just cannot stop appreciating it...at the same time


I have something to add ..


Pls do not see it as criticism...





yes ,I do not judge people..


but I have to read them...to make my counter moves effective..


I have to read their body language, interpret what they really want to say


People always wear mask to hide their true feeling...





They are different from trees and animals,


Even my dog does not bark and wag his tail at the same time


When he shows affection he wags his tail


but stops barking..





Do you expect humans...to be so true with their feelings..


They want to hide their anger and hatred...they some times manipulate.
Reply:Like the seasons which defines or describes a tree, human beings are judged by how they are responding to situations. Your approach and sincere deeds to others will rate you or judge you in the society. Its your behaviors, taste and feelings will add more and more charm and beauty to your life. so its very difficult to judge a man at his first sight or with a single incident.
Reply:You can judge the karma results on the end of life... How could we say a man is nice and honest. becuse most people are nice and honest while they have money and are comfortable,,,,while they turn crooks and liars and absconders when they are in debt to someone...this I say from my exp:...........lol
Reply:yes i agree too that we cannot judge a person from just 1 look ..


if we want to judge a person then we should know him for a quite long period of time and observe his/her atttitude with and the way of handling his situations........
Reply:It is a truth, explanation at the end tells everything.
Reply:yes dear very much true.


IT TAKES TIME TO JUDGE A PERSON OR ANY SITUATION COZ FOR JUDGING U REQUIRE TO KNOW THE BOTH SIDES OF THE COINS.
Reply:i will wait for you till the season of love comes...and you become my best friend....!!!
Reply:That was amzing! Makes u think! Thankx for sharing!
Reply:she is good girl,


she is more attractive than other girls.
Reply:Absolutely right!!. I agree with you.. We tend to judge ppl very quickly and decide on how to treat them and behave with them... But it takes a lot of time to understand someone...
Reply:Oh, I'm weeping. I'm so touched.
Reply:I think that is very true. However I don't always think like that.

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