Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Should I still be with someone even though he broke up?

I've been with this guy for 7 months, few hours of last October was supposed to be our 8-monthsarry, but instead of continuing it he decided to break up with me. I don't know what happened %26amp; why he did, but he did and told me that he's been questioning and wondering, which made me really broke down. Over the winter break he's been saying he missed me so much so we got together again, since I love him I gladly welcome him again thinking that it will be better. But I feel like everything has changed, that he is not the same best-friend I had and been with. It seems like he tend to or just forgets all the good and sweet things he would do for me. Also, it seems like I am more less appreciated, where he would only call me every other day or few days later, because he keeps on claiming that he's been busy with school. We also spend less more time (quality time) together, I understand he's busy with school and everything, and I'm not saying he should have time with me and stop school.

Should I still be with someone even though he broke up?
sounds to me like you're a little too clingy and you're driving him away to the point that he doesn't want to be around you ALL the time...no guy, even if he really likes a girl, wants to be around her all the time, us guys like to have our time too. Also, people don't have per month anniversaries, that's just childish. you have one once a year. Having a monthly anniversary is just another reason for a girl to have an excuse for a guy to buy her something she doesn't need. aim for a one year anniversary, if you can make it that far then it's worth it. Maybe he IS busy with school. I've been in college and if you are taking a tough major, you may not have anything that resembles a social life, it happens. Either that or he's making excuses not to see you becuase he's dating someone else behind your back. If he's been questioning your relationship maybe you should have a talk with him so you can make a decision on whether you want to drag it out any longer and get hurt emotionally in the process.
Reply:girl... i think ..the thing is when you break up with some one.. you keep thinking of all the good things you forget the bad..


Don't let your self feel used...


leave... me a lady about it..
Reply:just see him for sex only, that is it. Make it clear to him!
Reply:it sounds as though the break up did more to change you then maybe you realize. Do you think it could be possible that you may still harvest anger %26amp; resentment toward him? It could be too, that you broke up because you were starting to grow in different ways. It is possible that he missed you if you broke up over the differences, because he is remembering the good times. I think that even though you love him, you have grown in seperate ways so much so, that you notice everything wrong, instead of everything that you loved about him. You either need to step it up in the relationship with him, by talking to him about things that have been bothering you, or you need to talk to him %26amp; let him know that you just don't think that it is going to work. What ever you feel is best for you. Good luck.

Crooked Teeth

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