I am so confused! Ladies any help here?

I fell in love with a gal last winter. We split up and for eight months she continued to call. She is now overseas for two years and, most likely, forever. Yet, she still calls me. I'm not strong enough to not answer the phone. She knows that I still feel this way about her. I have asked her not to call due to these feelings. She still does. She still wants me to say sweet things to her. She even got upset when she learned I was dating again. What in the world is going on here?

I am so confused! Ladies any help here?
She wants her cake and wants to eat it to. Be a man..change your phone number and get on with your life. If she gave a 2 cents for you, she would be with you. She doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Don't be her "run to" guy when she is feeling down. Remember the sooner you get on with your life, the sooner she will.
Reply:Oooo.... nice question! i happen to live overseas... so i know how hard it is with relationships... she could be having a really hard time wherever she is and needs to know someone cares about her. She could still like you but only realized her mistake when she got away from you... and so she would be jealous of ur girlfriend... she could still have feelings for you but was confused because she was moving overseas. I know how hard it can be to leave loved ones behind... my bf and I broke up before i left... but then i didnt realize i was still in love with him until i was an ocean away and i regretted ever letting him dump me, i regretted leaving it on a bad note... wishing that maybe we had been friends before i left. So you can see... leaving does things to you. I bet she misses you... maybe you should ask her sometime why she keeps calling you. She may admit it... she may not.. I wouldnt because i know my ex bf doesnt like me. but if she knows she might tell you she misses you. No harm in asking, i mean what can she do? send you a threatening e-mail? haha she cant exactly DO anything from across the ocean!!! lol well good luck! whatever happens, life goes on.
Reply:Stop answering the phone.. and the problem will be over..
Reply:She doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you.


Do not pick up the phone to her again until you are strong enough to just be friends.


She wants you to say sweets things to her, because she probably has no one where she is to. She likes the thought of you being in love with her and that she can make you do anything.


Stop being soft, you have to look out for yourself now. If you don't feel like you can talk to her then don't. There is nothing hard about not answering the phone. Leave the room, switch it off, until you can stand up to her. She will soon stop, when she realises that she can not use you anymore.


I know I probably sound a bit harsh, but its what you really need to do.