Friday, January 27, 2012

Missing him...advice anyone?

ok, so i went 2 mexico 4 winter break, and i met one of my cousins friends. i didnt know him well, and didnt intend to. then on new years, we had this huge bonfire and he told my cousins he liked me, and they told me, then, idk, we started hugging and holding hands. since that day forward, we hugged and held hands alot. he was nice, sweet, and cute. but then i came back and miss him alot. his name is Oved. im not here slitting my throat 4 him, but i miss him. im moving on, but slowly. sometimes we acted like we didnt kno eachother then, then the next day we'd be hugging an holding hands. he showed he liked me to everyone, and i felt special with him. here, in illinois, i barely get looked at by a guy, just a few. but over there in mexico, everyone knew eachother, and alot of guys seemed interested. my cousins knew we liked eachother, and one day, when it was just me and my cousins, we were saying who we liked, and they asked me, "do u want to know who oved likes?" then they told me "katty, he likes her but just likes hugging you. he said that once u leave ur gonna leave him heartbroken" then they start laffing. but then i asked my close cousin, asked her if oved was the kind of guy to flirt a lot, and she said no. what made me feel special is that i'd be randomly sitting, and he comes up behind me and starts stroking my neck, or HED b sitting and id come behind him and start playing around w/ his hair, and hed grab my hands and put them on his chest.


but then one day my cousin got kinda mad at me the last few days i was there for telling her mom about these text msgs shes been getting from this guy. then, when i came back 2 illinois, i told my mom and uncle that she'd been mad. my uncle came to illinois with us to earn money to send to his family over there in mexico. so my uncle tells me "he probably wasnt as mad, it was jelousy. because oved and her used to have a thing for eachother, but then he liked you." i got all red because even he noticed us. my uncles son is cery sincere, he's 9, 4 years younger than me. well, he told me one day, "do u like oved?" then i tell him, "why?" then he sais "cause he told me he likes you." so i was smiles all day. but then again, my older cousins (same age as me), know i like him, but everytime they see him w/ me, they say, "so do u like her?!" it just seems to be my 2 cousins that act as if oved told them he doesnt like me, but everyone else seems to know. well, now he's gone, until my dad decides 2 take me 2 mexico again, but hes still in my mind. please tell me anything u think about this. idk, i just had to write my feelings down. thanks

Missing him...advice anyone?
Interesting story. Well, I'm going to have to say forget about it. If it is meant to be, then you'll go back and you know what happens next, happily ever after and crap. Haha, just move on because in reality, it really isn't probable. Good Luck!





-Sharon
Reply:This is too long to read. Find someone closer to home.
Reply:It just takes time.
Reply:Wow, that is alot, ha ha!





Ok maybe you could get his phone number and call him or his address and write to him. If he has an aim or myspace you could get that too and talk to him then.
Reply:wow how did you write so much? mine runs out of room.





I would suggest the book "it's called a break up because it's broken"





except, you sound a bit young for that so ...





i know this doesn't sound like it helps, but it just takes time. TIME TIME TIME.


nothing else heals a broken heart

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