Is this rude on her part, or am I over reacting? opinions please?

Been dating this girl for almost 2 months. She says she really likes me and is very happy. Lately she has sort of had a lot on her plate, she was upset over a very ill family member and for the last week has had the flu. She's become really distant, we went from texting like 20 times a day and talking on the phone everynight before and now I hardly hear from her, every other day ot so at most, and it's just like one text message. She is still sweet when I hear from her, saying she's really sick but wants to get better so she can see me, she misses me, etc. Today I give her a call just to say hi to try to cheer her up, leave a message and she didn't even call me back. I know it sucks having the flu, but i'm starting to take it personally that she doesn't return my calls or texts until it seems like it's convient for her. I had the flu last winter but it didn't stop me from talking to my g/f at the time. Should I chill out a bit, or is she being somewhat rude?

Is this rude on her part, or am I over reacting? opinions please?
i am a guy i had similar situtaion like urs at least 10 times. and the bad news is all these times the relationship ended. i mean whats the point of having a relationship if the other person dosn't feel the same way as u do???


u can chill out. and chnage ur attitude but don't know if it will make u happy. maybe go to her with some flowers and tell her how u feel .
Reply:Just don't take it personally. One thing I've learned is that some people don't think like we do. Give her a break for a little while. Being sick is not fun and you just want to be left alone sometimes so you can rest. Sometimes its also best trying not to get in contact with your gf. If you wait a couple of days you will see how much she really misses you.
Reply:dont call her or text her and wait and see how long it takes for her too contact you.... if it's too long, well then thier's your answer. ( i always tell my friends this when guys are weird w/ them.) GOOD LUCK! AND GOD BLESS!!
Reply:Hate say it, but as a girl I know these things, she might be pushing you off. I've had the flu and still made time to talk to the guy I like. As girls we do these things regardless of how we feel because talking to someone we're dating makes us happy. But still you never know, just back off a bit and wait until she contacts you.
Reply:dude, chillax.


She's just sick and not in the the mood to talk to anyone.
Reply:yeah, you should chill out a little bit - and maybe tryyy(?) to understand that if shes not feeling 'up to par' then a relationship, might seem very demanding at the moment. --- why dont you go out of your way to cater to the relationship by not expecting her to put a lot into the relationship at a time when she doesnt really feel like she can--- this does not mean however that you should let the relationship fall to pieces, just pick up her part for a minute,--- bring her soup, take care of her while shes sick, stop by her house just to drop off a flower, make sure you are still sending her texts, even if she is not - dont let her forget how much you care- im sure she will appreciate it all the more once she is feeling better. youre relationship will be that mutch stronger and hopefully she will cue into what a relationship requires, and start appreciating you with things like this too.
Reply:chill outtt.


u never nooo.
Reply:wish i could tell you shes thinking but im kinda going through the samething, guys confuse me. maybe cos she has alot going on shes abit depressd and doesn feel like talking to anyone, sometimes people just need time and space to themselves when they are down.
Reply:sounds like she is being rude. yes you should chill out a bit, cause it sounds like she has changed her mind. you can't make a person care if they don't want to. she might be trying to tell you something.