Does he really mean this??

okay well my ex and I broke up some time in the winter last year and since then we had remained friends… it took me forever to get over him and I haven’t had a real bf since, but he hade two gf’s. The first ended really badly and the second one just recently ended kinda on a silent note (she just stopped talking to him so he hasn’t talked to her in 2 months…. So he just declared it's over). So i was talking to him last night and he apparently never lost his feelings for me, he thought he did but he was just fooling himself? he said all this stuff that was really sweet sounde pretty honest and I told him how it was for me when we broke up because when he broke up with me he knew it hurt me but what hurt me more is that he would play with me and like one minute he would make me feel stupid for still liking him still but the next he would make it seem like he felt the same… and I guess the whole time he really did?





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Does he really mean this??
Stay friends @ the mo, let time, %26amp; distance do it's thing, if you're meant to be together then "distance makes the heart grow stonger" %26amp; if you're not then "Time heals all pain"





He prob did mean it but may be he was just playing it a bit closer than it was meant, ie may-be he does still really care for you, but made it sound like he meant more than that just to be able to say he had a girl-back-home if asked @ this new Acadamy he's off to.
Reply:if you know him well, you will know if he is just playing around.take it easy if you feel so uncertain with him.
Reply:i think he only wants to use you to fill the void in his life now.





since it was hard getting over him the first time its definitly going to be harder getting over him again.
Reply:He is just trying to make you his girl now because he doesn't have anyone else. Don't go back with him unless he tries real hard to get you back and tries for months and months even after he meets someone else and is with them. If he is still pursuing you after that point then re consider all of your options. In the mean time get a new bf who treats you like a princess.
Reply:i would say that he is scared to show his real feelings trust me that has happened to me (he is probably scared of committment) I don't know him well enough to know but I would say he does like you and he is just doesn't know what to do
Reply:hey olive,


I am sorry to say, and this is just an opinion but he wants someone. I am a male in the army and I know how it is. I am sure that he has feelings for you, but i am pretty sure that they are lonely feelings more so then love feelings. It doesn't sound like a guy that would cheat on you but I know how things go in the military. It is hard to stay true when you are away for so long, you need a very strong relationship with that person to make it work, If you say to yourself that you would have that relationship with him i would tell you to give it a try, but don't be surprised if it ends again as soon as he finds someone else that can comfort him where he is going. I wish this wasn't true but it sounds like he wants you until he finds a replacement. I want to wish you the best of luck with everything and I hope for your sake he is not that kind of dude. GL and god speed
Reply:you may get hurt again let him go so you wont feel stupid again. once its over its done , thats my motto so next time you have a boyfriend tell him when he is out he is out.
Reply:no, he really means it. sometime people just need to test the waters just to see that what they had on shore was the best and want it back. THe best thing that could of happened is that he dated around and then he realized that you were the one for him , he has it out of his system and he wont make the same mistake twice. As for the airforce, my man was in the marines and iraq for a while so yeah it sucks but it is a very respectable thing what he is doing and what better for him then to know he has a loving girl at home. if you still love him to .. go for it.. and as far as him leaving you can always go to school close to his base and eventually move to base with him... hope that helps.
Reply:Okay, so you have broken up with your ex. Your feelings are mixed right now as to what you should do. On the one hand, you want to believe that your ex really has feelings for you and he has changed in that short amount of time. I have actually been in a predicament like this about 20 times, where I tried to change but the funny thing, is that we just weren't meant to be together in each case. When you break up with someone, some of your trust dies a little and that happens more each time. The last and final break ups are usually the ones where nasty, hurtful things are said and everyone leaves mad. He is alone and you are a lifeline right now. Not only do you live in different areas, but you are still wondering if he's changed. He has not changed. That is why he broke up with the two females you just mentioned. He is obviously imbalanced with some aspect of his life he has yet to straighten out. He wants you because he thinks you can be manipulated into being with him again. I know, I have done this several times and it never worked out. I no longer need to do this because I am in a great relationship now but that's another story for another time. My advice is to be his friend, but move on and don't be anything more unless you want your feelings hurt again. Good luck!

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