met this guy in June we laugh and flirt and really enjoy each other.I know he cares 4 me and he's a sweet guy.we did say that we like each other. he's been away at college now(2 hours away).he has no experience with girls at all. but we flirt, I seem to take the lead and he responds well. some of the flirting would be I say something like I'm glad he's legal and he indeed I am with a big smiely face.I also gave him a kissing smiley face and he used a big smiley face.I know I sound so young but I'm 24, he's 18.he's into hanging with friends and video games so maybe that's why he hasn't had a g/f b-4 but he says he wants one.he loves to touch me and we hug and it seemed like we have something going on.He takes time out of doing hw and video games to talk to me.I tell him that he makes me dizzy and I can't stop smiling when I talk to him and that I miss him and we just playfully flirt. So does it look like he's really into me and we'll be together when he comes home for winter break?
Can you reassure me if this guy is really into me?
Well, I would say he is, but a bit shy because of the age difference. He probably thinks you are too experienced for him. You may have to take the initiative and tell him you'd like to be more than just flirty friends. Good luck.
Reply:Don't know if he's into you, but he sounds incredibly child-like and immature. He seems more like a 13 year old. I can't imagine why you find this kid attractive. Why not look for someone closer to age 25-27. This kissy face smiley stuff is for teenagers- which he, at eighTEEN, still is.
Reply:he looks like a nice guy, and yes, it seems he'll be with you and and that youre going to be happy boyfriends, wish you luck :)
Reply:Yep, you should have no problems whatsoever. You are in the driver seat here, if you want to push it to the next level, I'm confident from what you have said that he will follow, and probably fall in love. If you are waiting for him to take it to stage 2, then you may have to wait a year or two until he matures. But before you know it, he will be a man, so why not act now?
Reply:Personally i think he does like you...yes he may be younger but age doesn't prevent feelings from existing...he takes time out of hw and other things to make time for you that's defiantly a sign...he wouldn't go out of his way for one person if he doesn't have stirring growing feelings for you...also i think since he probably does have feelings for you i think when he does come home for winter break you would be together , unless of course he finds someone else that could and proably would drive you out of his mind...but personally i think maybe this flirting and stuff between u 2 is mostly physical and maybe just lust...those kind of relationships never usually work out unless your intentions were to have it be a short relationship...so i think just gradually talk 2 him about it see what he says discuss your options then go from there...also maybe if things get awkward lose contact for a small small amount of time to let things sink in and let him think about it and what you 2 discussed...but overall good luck!
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